Jul
17

Prejudice and Acceptance in society

When not dressed according certain standards, you are mostly prejudiced already by a lot of people. If your hair doesn’t look standard people are looking weird to you with a certain disgust. A lot of things are being seen as “normal” by  people. I can talk about hunderds of examples where you can sense discrimination and intolerance; intolerance based  on consumerism; because; you have, or you don’t have; the same clothes on and are suddenly you are a complete different person…

You are not the clothes you wear!

Am I agreeing with that? Absolutely not. You are not the clothes you wear, you are not the hairdresser you got, the car you drive, the watch you wear, the DVD collection you got or the furniture you have. You are not your house, your  garden, your dog or your shoes… You are who YOU are, not how you are being prepped by the material around you.

You are what you cannot buy!

After some talking we have both agreed, but, as you see, such materialism has been grown-in in ages on our world, where other people define the norms how you need to be. This was pure prejudice, purely around how “society” runs, how the expectations are, how people see eachother, how the media or another person says how you need to have your hair or which clothes best fit on you.

Your choice is less important for a lot of people, now-a-days.

I see daily people who cannot get along with eachother, just because of a prejudice what the other one is wearing. Last I was yelled at by a older lady who asked me “I shouldn’t be ashamed to walk around like that”.

My clothes where a short sportpants till my knees, a blue shirt with normal all-day design logo and my hair was as a mohawk, sides with drawings in the design of a sun, my hair in the middle was right up for 2cm to a point.

I told her in all respect “M’am, with all due respect, but isn’t this what you just said based on prejudice?” … “from where the expectation, why did you say that?” … She answered me “because my grandchildren would never be able to walk outside like that”. I asked “why then?”.. “Because it doesn’t look normal” and I asked “Why not? What is
normal?

May
17

Society is more important and above individuality

We currently live in a society, where a piece of plastic is more important than ever and where material is often the trendsetter of somebody. Clothes should not always make the man, but currently you are the car you drive, the phone you have, the money you got on your bank account, the your hairmousse you use and the watch you are wearing.

Society has grown above individuality, which is a quite dangerous leap towards the future if mankind does not watch out. Owning property is currently one of the most important facts in our throw-away-society. Where our fuels won’t last forever, society has been formed to such way where electronics are not having the value of their counterparts of dozen of years ago.

  • Although, can we really call this society?
  • Where you have to change yourself to someone elses demise?
  • Do you have to change yourself to the newest trends?
  • Are you really less important, because you do not want to follow a trend?
  • Which value do you got towards others, towards objects you can buy (almost) everywhere?
  • Where do you draw the line?

When you go to a store, you will be only most-valued when you can buy in large. As small consumer you often get less respect or attention instead when you are buying a lot. If you already look what I had with the shaving machine, which is merely one example of the many, which hits people on a daily base.

Your neightbour has a bigger car and I’m only driving in a small old car. A bird likes to show off its feathers, but, how far can you show off? Am I automatically being categorized in a lower class, which makes my neighbour have the right to look down on me? Or am I a human who deserves equal respect and equal right on feelings and ideals? Which are not connected to me on products but rather how mankind is really made?

This has partially to do with (over)population, but is in some situations seriously being pulled over the line when a man should be feeling “good” instead of “bad”.

Society is over-protective by drastic measures, by people and government, while mankind often doesn’t think clearly which exactly they are protecting, which ideals or which errors are made by protecting a society; running in many cases on the neck of the emotions of the fellow citizen.

Often protected by prejuidice, wrong to hostile reactions, towards the fellow human. It gets more often that people are getting more intolerant toward eachother just because of that protection habit. This habit is often also woven together with jalousy and greed.

May
10

Difference between People

Today, there is getting a big and visible difference, again, between the rich and the poor; but, if you look at it in a different perspective that different lies inbetween having “a lot of material” and “few material”. Are those with few on material unhappy? Often not, but, they get unhappy because they are getting pushed to a direction where the rich protect their assets that hard, on the poor mans neck. This happens on civilian level, thieves, who steal to pay their bread till governments that protect their oil… But … where is the limit?

That materialistic can also be converted to the word: capital, since, everything you buy has a certain value, even if it is a small investment, each investment you put in a company is more money they get + more money to the government by taxes…

I have been observing since my youth and when I grew up, I’ve seen this problem growing exponentionally and have been thinking about the importance of the feelings of a someone else and the importance of an object which you might have bought for a lot of money yesterday, but which you would do a murder for to not loose that precious thing. Not to stand still at the consequences of such interaction between eachother…

Jul
17

A global problem!

The problem of the media and consumption-society is not a local problem in Belgium or Europe, but worldwide.

Where there flows cash, flows often enough also blood… This still the “civilized” the 21st century.

There are a lot of (proposals of) laws which come straight from the United States, from which companies exist in both parts in the world, the US and Europe. Since the industry has a lot more to say on political level towards the citizen, while gaining more power through the media with “reality shows”, commercials and television where they show you you “can still” get richer than you already are. Politici are following blindly like a puppy and start to become objects themselves and their party, like which was broadcasted on VTM in Luk Alloo, Where anke van Dermeersch promised to get nude in Playboy if she was elected, which is as mediacritic chosen as Arnold Schwarzenegger…

“Happiness sold in cans”

People are satisified too fast, when they feel safe with a good income. If any attack happens on that, even because of the buzz-word terrorism, one will get open and bare towards abuse of its government to protect oneself, the family and… the assets….

A lot of governments use this privelege very succesfully, to take away the privacy of the citizens and to push them to consume more and better …

Jun
17

Legal pick-pockets!

You need to watch which Internet site you register your cellphone at. If you register you need to read the fine prints and full disclaimer/EULA before you are sure your bill won’t be sent sky high by one or another company which earns money by sending text messages to you…

Advertising through pop-up
banners, spam, phising, spyware,
toolbars, … The Internet is infected,
just like television is with its each
15 to 30 minute commercials …
it spreads further and further …
Why? Because it gets big $$$!?

You didn’t sign anything, but still, you can be sent a huge amount of cash with text messages. You need to be careful with your privacy of your personal data… Watch out who gets your phonenumber and when you click the “I agree with the conditions” box. It can often cost you more money without even knowing it…

Mar
05

Author’s Note

This book has been written because my view on the world makes me feel more bad than good, I don’t feel good how people react to eachother, talk and treat each, which is often the cause of materialism. Watch out, it’s my view on
the world and just like any human being on this planet I can be wrong; although my view on the world is based on facts, which did happen in real life or I have read about or seen in the media!

What’s actually the difference between materialism and feelings? I can best describe material as an object or a value in money or products, which you can buy or trade. Something that can be touched or can be shown and has certain
specifications which always will be the same.

A feeling, you cannot buy.

How hard you might search, you will not find a feeling in an object, in a can, in a brand of clothes, in a voucher or in
money. Feeling goes a lot further than a number. Often a feeling cannot be expressed in a number, however you can say “I feel 100% good” if you feel yourself good, and you can say “I feel bad” if you feel bad; a feeling will be unique for every human and will be always hunderd percent true for the person feeling it. A feeling has no specifications and will variate from human to human.

But where does it end? Where ends, the value of something you have bought against the value of a human? Written in 2006, that line between a product and a feeling is very thin and is often seen as one whole part instead of two seperate items.

observe, relativise and relax…
rinse, leather, repeat!

Often the difference is too small and people protect their assets on a such strong way that a life and feeling of a human is not so important anymore. While that object, even if it is not there anymore, can be bought again. Is the life or the feeling of a human for sale? Often it is, or, so think a lot of people who think people are equal as the object in their possesion.

Feb
05

Dedicated To

my parents, my grandmother, Tom Spruytte, my friends
and everyone who understands me and improves in this world…

I see values diminishing by the minute, better write some down before they are forgotten forever!

“the people is as strong as they want to be, improvement starts only with yourself,
not by others who tell you how to improve who think only about themself,
only if you start to really know yourself, you will know others,
don’t get lost in the mist of fear, think now before it bothers!”

Feb
05

Protect Yourself

Being artist,
can be in many things,
the audio world world,
is a representation of the sounds we feel good with,
the movie world,
is a representation of art imitating life,
the written world,
is a representation of the mind,
protect,
your unique artistic world,
your artistic words,
your artistic mind,
your artistic soul,
your creations,
your thougths,
your speech,
your ideas,
yourself,
yours,
you,
u
!