When not dressed according certain standards, you are mostly prejudiced already by a lot of people. If your hair doesn’t look standard people are looking weird to you with a certain disgust. A lot of things are being seen as “normal” by people. I can talk about hunderds of examples where you can sense discrimination and intolerance; intolerance based on consumerism; because; you have, or you don’t have; the same clothes on and are suddenly you are a complete different person…
You are not the clothes you wear!
Am I agreeing with that? Absolutely not. You are not the clothes you wear, you are not the hairdresser you got, the car you drive, the watch you wear, the DVD collection you got or the furniture you have. You are not your house, your garden, your dog or your shoes… You are who YOU are, not how you are being prepped by the material around you.
You are what you cannot buy!
After some talking we have both agreed, but, as you see, such materialism has been grown-in in ages on our world, where other people define the norms how you need to be. This was pure prejudice, purely around how “society” runs, how the expectations are, how people see eachother, how the media or another person says how you need to have your hair or which clothes best fit on you.
Your choice is less important for a lot of people, now-a-days.
I see daily people who cannot get along with eachother, just because of a prejudice what the other one is wearing. Last I was yelled at by a older lady who asked me “I shouldn’t be ashamed to walk around like that”.
My clothes where a short sportpants till my knees, a blue shirt with normal all-day design logo and my hair was as a mohawk, sides with drawings in the design of a sun, my hair in the middle was right up for 2cm to a point.
I told her in all respect “M’am, with all due respect, but isn’t this what you just said based on prejudice?” … “from where the expectation, why did you say that?” … She answered me “because my grandchildren would never be able to walk outside like that”. I asked “why then?”.. “Because it doesn’t look normal” and I asked “Why not? What is
normal?